The readings for Twentieth Sunday in Ordinary Time may be found at:
https://bible.usccb.org/bible/readings/081626.cfm
Today, the evangelist St. Matthew
introduces us to a woman who just won’t give up.
She is a Canaanite woman.
An outsider.
And more importantly, a mother whose daughter is suffering terribly.
And every parent understands that.
When your child is hurting, you hurt.
So this mother comes to Jesus and cries out,
“Have pity on me, Lord, Son of David!”
Eventually, kneeling before Him and saying just three words,
“Lord, help me.”
Those three words tell us something very important about prayer, we need God.
We spend so much of our lives trying to handle things ourselves.
Fix our own problems.
Make our own plans.
Stay in control.
And then life gives us something we cannot fix.
And suddenly we discover we are not as in control as we thought.
Maybe that is where some of our deepest prayer begins,
when we finally admit we need God.
That is what this woman does.
She kneels before Him and says,
“Lord, help me.”
At first, Jesus says nothing.
The disciples want to send her away.
And then the scene becomes really uncomfortable.
Jesus says,
“It is not right to take the food of the children and throw it to the dogs.”
Ouch.
This woman could have become offended.
She could have walked away.
Instead, she takes the very image Jesus gives her and turns it into a prayer,
“Please, Lord, for even the dogs eat the scraps that fall from the table of their masters.”
She’s not trying to win an argument with Jesus.
She just continues trusting Jesus.
That is humility.
That’s persistence.
She isn't saying, “Lord, I deserve this.”
She is saying, “Lord, I trust that even the smallest gift of Your mercy is enough.”
She could have become angry.
She could have walked away.
But she stays.
Jesus is silent. She stays.
The disciples want her gone. She stays.
The answer she gets is difficult. She stays.
She stays and she keeps praying.
The Catechism of the Catholic Church points to this woman as an example of prayer offered with ‘loving persistence’.
You can look that up in CCC 2610.
Persistence in prayer isn't about wearing God down until He gives us what we want.
It is about trusting Him enough to keep coming back.
Jesus finally says:
"O woman, great is your faith! Let it be done for you as you wish."
And her daughter is healed.
Her persistence does not earn God's mercy.
Instead, it reveals a faith that refuses to stop trusting in Him.
And in the process, this woman becomes our teacher.
If you prayed yesterday and nothing happened -
pray today.
If you have been praying for months -
keep praying.
If you have been praying for years -
keep bringing it to Jesus.
Not because God will always give us exactly what we ask for.
Prayer isn't a transaction.
Sometimes God changes the situation.
Sometimes He changes us.
Sometimes He opens a door.
Sometimes He gives us the strength to accept what we cannot change.
But persistent prayer keeps us close to Him through all of it.
So think about the situation you’ve been carrying in prayer.
Bring it to Jesus again.
Not, “Lord, You owe it to me.” But, “Lord, help me.”
Sometimes great faith doesn’t have to be dramatic.
Sometimes great faith is simply showing up before God one more time.
One more prayer.
One more Rosary.
One more Mass.
One more visit before the Blessed Sacrament.
One more, “Lord, help me.”
And there is one more thing.
This woman believed that a crumb from the table of Jesus would be enough.
And look where we are today.
We’ve been invited to the table of the Lord.
Where we are not offered crumbs.
In the Eucharist, Christ gives us Himself.
His Body and Blood.
His Real Presence.
She believed that even a crumb from the Lord's table was enough.
How much more should we trust the One who gives us not a crumb, but nothing less than Himself?
This week, let us remember the lessons of the Canaanite woman.
To go to the Lord.
To stay, even when it is hard.
To pray “Lord, help me.”
Because He hears.
He sees.
He knows.
And even when His answer
is not the answer we expected,
He never abandons
the one
who calls upon Him.
Lord, help me.